2020 is over, much to no one's dismay. To say this year was full of challenges and trying times is an understatement.
With the new year approaching most of us have set new goals, our eyes glued to new dazzly prizes perhaps? Or maybe, we’re chilling because we’re just happy to be here. Whatever it may be, here I am, your handy dandy blogger, with a few suggestions, 21 to be exact, of lessons you should take with you into the new year.
Value your time. Try not to waste it on people or situations that you know are no good for you.
Remember to forgive yourself. Love yourself in ways you didn't before.
Don't shrink yourself for people who refuse to grow.
You are not obligated to maintain relationships with toxic family members.
The upsetting experiences of your past will not be your resting place.
Your journey to self and new discoveries is exactly that, YOUR journey and its unique to who you are. Don’t feel discouraged if you're not making the same strides as someone else.
Your life has and will always matter.
Take care of yourself and your space. A cluttered space makes for easy distractions which can leave you feeling unsettled.
Be clear about your wants and needs.
You are worthy of love when you are laughing and when you can't bare to fake a smile.
It's not your job to change others. You can bring them new ideas but the choice to implement them or not, is all their own.
Those dreams you've suppressed out of fear of the unknown? Go for it!
Those who want to show up for you, will do so. You will never have to run after your tribe.
You can do anything you put your mind to. Your dreams are very much attainable.
Release the pressure of feeling like you have to be strong all the time. *read it again*
Don't compromise who you are just so you can be liked.
You don't have to do everything alone. Allow others to show up for you, if you need help let your tribe know.
Self-care doesn't have to be a luxury. Resting when you are tired, telling yourself you are worthy of life and standing firm in your morals can also be self-care.
Everyone won't grow with you. Everyone won't be able to go where you are going and that's alright.
Stop doubting yourself.
Give yourself permission to feel your emotions without being embarrassed. You don't have to apologize or "fix yourself up" when the tears start to flow. It's ok to be vulnerable. It's ok to be human.
If all you did this year was make it to the end of the year that is worthy of celebration! Celebrate yourself! Love up on yourself and please show yourself grace and kindness.
Happy New Year and I pray that it is a very blessed one filled with love, deep belly laughs and great health. God bless.
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